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2 Bucket Wash

What is a 2 Bucket Wash?

The two bucket method solves the problem of dirt scratching your valuable paint job. One bucket has the soapy water that you wash the paint surface with. The second bucket has the rinse water that you rinse off the sponge or washing mitt in.

Optional, but strongly suggested is that you place a Grit Guard in each bucket. This helps separate the dirt particles from your wash media and keeps it from being dragged across the paint finish of your car.

Invest in a quality car washing mitt (microfiber or sheep wool). The fibers of the sheepskin tend to work dirt away from the surface. A good sheepskin wash mitt will last for years. Just make sure you rinse it thoroughly after each use. Please don't use a sponge! Dirt and scratchy stuff can get caught on the sponge and scratch. The pros use a sheepskin mitt to keep swirl marks off their beautiful car finishes. A wise idea to use.

Wash your car in the shade. If the finish is too hot the paint softens and scratches easier. Wet the car thoroughly with a gentle stream of water. Don't use full force spray! This can grind grit into the paint finish. Just a thorough wetting is sufficient.

Never use dish detergent, because this will remove the wax! Use an appropriate car washing solution sold on the automotive aisles of your favorite store. Fill up your bucket with water first. Then add the car washing solution. You don't want a whole bunch of foamy bubbles. Once you've added an ounce or two of the car soap then swirl it around with your mitt to get the suds.